it all comes naturally

On July 02, me and my boyfriend went out just like most other couples out there. Due to the fact that there are not many places for dating/hanging out in Jakarta except mall, mall and mall, sometimes I can help thinking that dating could be so effing boring. I mean, people do the same routine every week. They go out, eat or see a movie. Over and over again. Don't they get bored? Because I already feel a bit bored with our routine. I always want to hang out somewhere other than malls or restaurants, and he feels the same too. For me, go to a museum or go for a picnic in a park are much more fun than simply go to the mall. Don't you think so?

However, on that particular night, I realized something. After we had a dinner, me and my boyfriend decided to go to this particular place we always make fun about for it is always filled by those labile adolescents. So, we went there, bought two glasses of its distinctive beverages and talked. This is how it went. We began talking about random things and ended up having a meaningful conversation. I don't really know what happened in between. As I am writing this post, I realize that this is how our conversation usually goes even when we were still just friends. He also once told me that he really likes talking to me. I remember the first time we hanged out. We went to the cinema to watch "Shrek 3". As we were waiting for the movie to start, we talked. And we stopped talking when we realized that "the movie should already be played by now". And so we missed the first 30 minutes of the movie. And we always laugh every time we remember that moment.

Maybe I'm being way too naive by saying this, but that night I realized that it doesn't really matter where you spend your date night, what really matters is the one you're with and how you spend it with him/her. And a nice talk with the special one beats everything.



he's the tall one, like literally, in real life too.